My contribution to working in a culture of harassment…

For those of you that don’t know me won’t know that my journey on this earth has been riddled with abuse from the onset of my life. Abuse comes in many different forms. I have witnessed physical abuse and been subject to it. But the more insidious form of emotional torture of the narcissistic kind…

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What seeing my boyfriends text notifications on his iPad has shown me about my personal growth…

This one was sooooo monumental for me I have to share it. I had to take Bearded things IPad to the gym so I could record some videos for my personal training and well-being social media stuffs because I had forgotten mine at home 3 hours away. I am NOT a tech person whatsoever. I…

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What I learned by examining my own victim mindset by observing the anatomy of a narcissistic bully situation….

I’m back and ready to dig further into my experience of being on the receiving end of a narcissistic assault from my boss the other day. I am grateful for the lessons I learned from that experience. I am humbled by the realization that hatred was seething through my veins for not only him but…

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i was assaulted by a narcissist the other day. This is what it taught me about my own hate…. β£οΈ

i will always be amused by the wonders of the world. One of the most immense wonders is the narcissist and the torment and abuse they inflict on their targets. I’m empathic to the millionth degree and want to help everyone heal and because of that (lucky me ☘️) makes me a prime target for…

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The trouble with non existent fat rolls…Β 

I hope everyone is navigating through their Monday with joyful ease today πŸ™‚  Today I want to talk about body image struggles. Life is always teaching me.  Yesteday I had this amazing idea. I wanted to show you all the not so sparkly side of life. I don’t want to just post stuff on social…

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Why I almost thanked my dead mom when my grandma died πŸ™ƒ

My dads mom died a few weeks back in a rather unexpected turn of events.  From what I remember of her she was the sweetest, most loving being on the face of the planet. At probably 4 foot 3 she brought more than her fair share in the loving energy she exuded. I say “from…

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My thoughts on church attendance πŸ™ƒ

Happy Sunday evening my loves!!!  I hope this week treated you all so amazing! Life’s been balls to the wall for me lately and I needed to wave the white flag. I actually spent about 102% of the day yesterday doing as little as possible.  It was just what I needed to regroup. I haven’t…

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Why I am done praying to win the lottery….Β 

I used to pray to win the lottery every damn day. 8484737374 times a day. It was going to be the thing that made me the most happy.  I just knew it would wash all my worries away and give Calgon a run for its money. I’d get out of debt, I’d get a better…

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Sunday kibbles about prayer βœ¨πŸŒŸπŸ’«

Hi loves!  I hope this week has met you all with so many morsels of joy!!!  I’m feeling so full of luster today and wanna share some stuffs on my heart with you πŸ™‚ I wanna dip into the woo for a bit and share some of my thoughts on prayer. For those of you…

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